How to End a Relationship

If you really are not sure which way to go try the excerise To break up or not to break up

"It is a far better thing to have loved and broken up than to have never have broken up at all and to have settled for less."

- me

I believe so strongly in not settling that I couldn't resist quoting myself.

Break Up Rule #1

Absolutely no ifs ands or buts about it.

If you have financial and emotionally complicated ties with the person, which is completely natural and expected, it is no reason not to follow through with what your heart and your brain has probably been telling you for a long time.

The Band-Aid Approach of How to End a Relationship

It's going to be hard, it's going to hurt like hell for you and the other person or maybe just the other person or maybe you more than anything.

Fast, quick, to the point no lingering.

There may be crying, yelling, begging, pleading, blackmailing, threatening, lovemaking, people across the globe have used every trick in the book to not let go of a relationship, be prepared for this.

Have a plan, a back up plan, a safety plan and a plan B. You need to think about and plan for:

- How to know whether or not you should break up with someone

- When is the best time to do the deed

- How to ensure your safety (the three critical rules)

- What to say and how to make sure you are heard

- The Stages of Ending a Relationship

- How to make a clean break

- How to get over break up obstacles

- What to do about the children

- How to deal with loneliness Click here for Dating Secrets eBook including a complete break up guide and a free coaching session for a limited time

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